Yes I am a pregnant 33yr old.

After a very, very long day we finally had our 19wk ultrasound and we found out the sex of the baby. Like I said before having a little girl would be harder for me to get use to then a little boy.

So when the tech asked us "do we want..." before she even finished the sentence Mr. Spaghettibender said "yes" she said okay we'll see if the baby co-operates with us.

She went around doing measurements of the baby and then she says to us. I have seen some things... Mr. Spaghettibender says "things" is it a boy... she says yes. I swear to you I got teary eyed. He kissed my hand and said you got what you wished on your bday.

When we left there we went to dinner at Bella's Bistro. I had a gift card that had to be used up by the end of the year and thought what a great time to use it up. Being in a tiny restaurant didn't leave us much privacy though. I kinda wish we had just gone home and curled up on the sofa and talked.

Dinner took so long that by the time we got home it was time for Mr. Spaghettibender to run off to class. His brother had called just as we got in the door so I told him he could tell him. Everyone still says - I thought you were going next week.

Ha, ha - fooled ya!

So then I emailed the ultrasound pic to my mom and my cousin. I then went through the 14 voice messages on our phone with bday wishes and Mr.Spaghtettibender ran off to school. I have no idea how all this stuff happens when we have no time to sit down and enjoy things together. I talked to my mom and then my cousin. My mom decided to stop by to give me my bday gift. Then the phone kept ringing all night. By the time I got to sit down and relax it was 9pm. By then I really just wanted to see Mr. Spaghettibender and talk to him.

His class finishes at 10pm and that hour just dragged on. I was never so excited to see him pull into the driveway. I told him all about my nights events and we talked until 11:30. I was so exhausted that I was sick... no not pregnancy nausea... exhausted sick. I said we have to go to bed - I turned off the lamp and I was out like a light. I slept straight through until my alarm. That is so unusual.

Here I am today talking about such a big event happening in my life and all I can think about is how I wish I was with my husband. Honestly I would have taken the morning off to be with him (no classes until after lunch) but he had previously decided to work construction with his cousin this morning. Can't blame a guy for trying to make some extra cash.

So now I am missing him and wishing for some time alone.

Definitely not something I see in our future since tonight we have a Wedding rehearsal party and I can't see us getting home until at least 10pm. So no stopping and adjusting for us.

Mew, I'm tired!